{"id":79000,"date":"2020-08-30t11:00:41","date_gmt":"2020-08-30t15:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/48e130086c.nxcli.net\/?p=79000"},"modified":"2020-08-31t21:09:25","modified_gmt":"2020-09-01t01:09:25","slug":"take-that-extra-breath-with-email","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/\/www.g005e.com\/2020\/08\/30\/take-that-extra-breath-with-email\/","title":{"rendered":"take that extra breath with email"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/a>a quick reply isn’t always the best move. by steven e. sacks<\/i> email has proven through the years to be a convenient and efficient communication tool in business and in personal life.<\/p>\n more: <\/b>is your message open to interpretation?<\/a> | political correctness or just common courtesy?<\/a> | syncing up for the covid era<\/a> | profit is not a mission<\/a> | confronting leadership: not such a bad thing<\/a> | new opportunities for a \u2018new normal\u2019<\/a> | working remotely shouldn\u2019t mean feeling isolated<\/a> | how engaged are your employees?<\/a> but it can also create misunderstandings, conflict avoidance, a desire for immediate gratification (aka rapid response), and a way to defer answering a question, taking action, and avoiding commitments.<\/p>\n much has been written about the proper and effective way to communicate via email: using a clear subject line that avoids the spam folder trap; short sentences, clear and to the point; and creating a call to action or requesting an unambiguous decision. when not carefully considering the receiver of your communication, the game of email ping-pong ensues and will continue unabated until such time it will require a (heaven forbid!) phone call or, if really dire, a face-to-face conversation.<\/p>\n another challenge is that we get scores of emails every day. this can put a crimp on productivity by distraction or lack of focus on other matters. if you are like some people, you don\u2019t want an email to remain unopened. it could be an annoying solicitation or you were copied unnecessarily on a matter that is not relevant to you. so, with work deadlines looming and back-to-back meetings mixed in, email becomes less of a convenience and more of a stress factor.<\/p>\n handling the unwelcome email<\/strong><\/p>\n what about an email that makes you confused, frustrated, or angry? how many times does a simple misinterpretation or lousy timing cause a situation to needlessly escalate?<\/p>\n a cardinal rule in regular conversation is to take an extra second to think through a comment you want to make. will your response be disproportionate? should you quickly change the topic? could your initial response result in the deterioration of a relationship?<\/p>\n \u201cif email had been around before the telephone was invented people would have said, \u2018hey, forget email \u2013 with this new telephone invention i can actually talk to people.\u2019\u201d \u2013 anonymous<\/p><\/blockquote>\n the same thought processes should be applied in an email exchange. if an email makes you angry, the last thing you should do is send out a quick reply that reflects your mood at that very moment. get up from your desk, look out the window; take a walk; get a cup of coffee; have a quick conversation with a friendly colleague \u2013 any one of these can improve your emotional state.<\/p>\n if you feel the need to vent, draft an email. do not put in a subject line and do not put in an email address \u2013 you do not want to take the chance of accidentally sending it. walk away and clear your head for a few minutes. go back and reread the email you drafted. if you have cooled down and have carefully considered the meaning behind the original email you received, draft a reasonable response that is devoid of sarcasm, anger, innuendo or personal attack. then take another few moments to determine if your response will be received positively, even if it just contains questions seeking clarification.<\/p>\n if your action results in a response you believe has heightened the tension, refrain from responding again. as much as you would like to be on the \u201cgiving end,\u201d be the more mature person and let your silence be an influential factor.<\/p>\n if the person is in the same office location, get up, take a deep breath, think of a clever and non-threatening opening line as you drop by his or her office and knock on the door. if the person is in a different location, set up a google hangouts or skype video call so that your facial expressions are in sync with how and what you want to say in the conversation. it\u2019s a good bet that the situation will be resolved. after all, how would we have handled delicate situations before technology?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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