{"id":55518,"date":"2018-11-01t11:00:27","date_gmt":"2018-11-01t15:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/48e130086c.nxcli.net\/?p=55518"},"modified":"2018-11-11t17:22:02","modified_gmt":"2018-11-11t22:22:02","slug":"your-perception-will-shape-your-experiences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/\/www.g005e.com\/2018\/11\/01\/your-perception-will-shape-your-experiences\/","title":{"rendered":"how perception shapes experience"},"content":{"rendered":"

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by bill reeb<\/i><\/p>\n

your perception of what you expect will actually shape what you experience. let\u2019s consider a few common perspective variations like \u201cscarcity versus abundance,\u201d \u201cone right answer versus many right answers,\u201d \u201copportunity versus threats,\u201d \u201ceasy versus struggle,\u201d \u201csuccess versus failure,\u201d \u201chappiness versus sadness\u201d just to name a few.<\/p>\n

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with each of these, there is a continuum between one extreme and the other, and depending on where your outlook falls on that continuum, your perspective \u2013 that filter \u2013 will shape the way you interpret every experience.
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\nfor example, if we think there is a limited availability of something we want, studies have proven that we will act more hastily and less thoughtfully as we try to procure whatever it is while supplies last. salespeople often try to invoke the feeling of \u201cscarcity\u201d to create urgency around a decision they want you to make. my experience is that rarely is there real scarcity.<\/p>\n

for example, let\u2019s consider that after months of looking, you finally find the perfect house, but the owners won\u2019t sell it for a price you feel is reasonable. the feeling of scarcity would motivate most people to pay too much or more than they can afford. why? because they feel that if they don\u2019t buy that specific house, another opportunity like it will never present itself again. i used to be easily manipulated by thoughts such as these. fortunately, through my many years of experience being led around by the nose by others more worldly, to stay with the same analogy, i found that there are many great houses to be found. sometimes you had to look a little harder, sometimes you had to wait a little longer, but ideal houses were always there, or about to come onto the market.<\/p>\n

i was able to shift my perspective from looking at everything through the filter of scarcity to seeing everything through a filter of abundance.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

when you approach life with the idea of abundance, there is no reason to overreact by purchasing the last one, because even if it is the last one, there will be other alternatives that will come along that will make you just as happy, if not happier.<\/p>\n

i am not suggesting that you should put off whatever you are trying to accomplish to wait for the next best thing. i am simply stating that you almost always have alternatives. there really will be<\/p>\n