{"id":53759,"date":"2018-02-23t13:00:26","date_gmt":"2018-02-23t18:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/48e130086c.nxcli.net\/?p=53759"},"modified":"2020-05-21t13:32:04","modified_gmt":"2020-05-21t17:32:04","slug":"stop-may-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/\/www.g005e.com\/2018\/02\/23\/stop-may-important\/","title":{"rendered":"what to stop may be more important than what to do"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/a>make sure your plans are sustainable.<\/strong><\/p>\n by bill reeb<\/i><\/p>\n as you continue doing the work, as you make progress toward your desires, much of your focus should rightfully be on \u201cwhat can i do today to move me one step closer to whatever i am trying to achieve?\u201d while \u201cdoing the work\u201d really seems to be about actions you should take, often it is just as much \u2013 if not more \u2013 about what actions to stop<\/strong>.<\/p>\n more: <\/b>expect and embrace failure anytime you do new work<\/a> | be realistic regarding expectations<\/a> | a clear direction provides you a sanity check<\/a> | refining desire<\/a> | roadblocks from people with good intentions<\/a> in martial arts, regardless of the activity, learning to use proper technique is essential. managing \u201cwhat not to do\u201d shows up in every objective you set for yourself. a few months ago while i was skiing, i was clumsily traversing downhill after nine months of being away and had to remind myself to stop leaning back in my boots so that i could turn more easily and quickly. recently, when i was juggling about 10 business projects at the same time, i had to stop reacting to whoever was screaming the loudest and start working off my \u201cwhat-is-the-best-use-of-my-time-now\u201d to-do list so that i could get more done in a shorter period of time rather than spinning in circles because i was constantly jumping from project to project.<\/p>\n one night in the last few weeks, i found myself in bed trying to go to sleep while i was visualizing a challenge over\u00a0 and over in my mind. i knew that if i didn\u2019t stop the circus going on in my head i wouldn\u2019t be refreshed enough to properly deal with my situation in the morning. today, while i was working on this piece, i had to stop being judgmental about what i was writing and let my thoughts flow freely, knowing that later i could fine-tune what i had written. it doesn\u2019t matter what you are doing, for every step forward you want to take, progress is often predicated as much or more on stopping something you are doing as it is about starting something.<\/p>\n as you consider starting or stopping an action, recognize that whatever you decide to do, you need to approach it in a sustainable way. this is one of the major change management points i review with my clients regularly.<\/p>\n working with one of my cpa firm clients recently, it was decided that all of the partners needed to start spending more time in front of their clients. the client identified that this action would not only create greater loyalty, but was a best practice in the profession as well. because of hearing frequently what was keeping their clients awake at night, the partners would<\/p>\n after this decision was made, the group decided that each partner would be required to set up at least one meeting a week with existing clients. they also decided to track these appointments to make sure everyone was living up to expectations. then, at\u00a0 their monthly meetings, they planned on sharing their experiences to put peer pressure on partners who were falling short of expectations, as well as penalize them financially for their underperformance.<\/p>\n to\u00a0 be fair, i supported every step in this initiative except one: the once-a-week requirement. i suggested they start off scheduling these \u201cgain awareness\u201d client meetings once a month for each partner for the first six months and then start increasing the frequency once the success of the initiative was clear to everyone.<\/p>\n for many who read this, the idea of requiring only one client visit per partner per month could be viewed as an almost meaningless effort. \u201cwhy even bother?\u201d you might be asking. well, remember the idea of sustainability. at that time, only a few partners in that firm made these kinds of visits and they were sporadic. under this new plan, visits would be required of every partner and tied to financial rewards or punishments. given that the partners already had their plates full with work, the firm needed to recognize that it was going to get some pushback because partners were being asked to trade effort that was comfortable (doing project work) for an effort that was uncomfortable (visiting clients in more of an advisory role).<\/p>\n my suggestion of one visit per month was not based on magic. i knew from experience that while a member or two of the group might achieve four visits per month consistently over a several-month period, the likelihood was that the majority would not get there. sure enough, after the first month, one of 10 partners made the required visits. after the second month, a different partner of the 10 made the required visits; but still only one partner met the requirement. at the end of the first quarter, this initiative was scrapped because everyone was failing at it.<\/p>\n it wasn\u2019t abandoned because it was a bad idea … it was ditched because we tried to force change at a pace that the partners were not ready to sustain. in this situation, for this new expectation to have gotten legs, we would have needed seven or eight of the 10 partners to be successfully fulfilling the new requirements every month. a high compliance rate like this would have started changing the culture and putting pressure on the few outliers rather than the way it actually worked with low compliance and abandonment.<\/p>\n coming full circle to integrate these examples, real change often comes from small sustainable actions that pool together \u2013 creating magnitude over time \u2013 and progress comes as much from what you stop doing as it does from what you are doing.<\/p>\n
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\nrecently, john has been breaking down complex movements and coupling them with verbal mnemonics to help his students understand exactly what he wants them to do, and not to do. while i often don\u2019t have difficulty executing various techniques, i almost always have a problem performing the techniques properly. for instance, i might incorporate extra strength into the movement to offset the fact that i was only partially correctly utilizing the technique being taught (which didn\u2019t require strength, but rather leverage or flow). so, when i am doing the work, i need to remember that my first priority is to learn the technique, not to execute it. i have to stop trying to be someone who can quickly mimic the technique in order to be the person who has correctly learned the technique.<\/p>\n\n