{"id":53447,"date":"2017-12-07t05:01:15","date_gmt":"2017-12-07t10:01:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/48e130086c.nxcli.net\/?p=53447"},"modified":"2020-05-21t13:33:40","modified_gmt":"2020-05-21t17:33:40","slug":"know-where-you-are-running-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/\/www.g005e.com\/2017\/12\/07\/know-where-you-are-running-to\/","title":{"rendered":"know where you are running to"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"businessman<\/a>do you have a goal or just a speed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

by bill reeb<\/i><\/p>\n

if you decide you want to make some changes, that’s great.<\/p>\n

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but before you start running away from whatever it is that you don\u2019t like, make sure you know what you are running toward.<\/p>\n

consider this scenario…<\/p>\n

let\u2019s say you are employed by an organization that doesn\u2019t allow you to grow or is a demeaning place to work so you want to leave. no problem, just start looking for another place to work.<\/p>\n

if you are unhappy, don\u2019t spend months and years of your life rationalizing that you might as well stay where you are because no matter where you go you won\u2019t be treated well. take control of your life and do something about a bad situation!<\/p>\n

but i want to provide special emphasis to the phrase \u201cstart looking.\u201d i didn\u2019t just say \u201cquit your job.\u201d i said \u201cstart looking for another place to work.\u201d i don\u2019t believe in running away from some aspect of your life, but rather, in running toward whatever change you have decided to make.<\/p>\n

for example, if you decide you need to develop a new career, before you quit your current job, take time during your evenings and weekends to decide what you want your new career to be. if this means you need to enroll in a school to find out more about some possible choices, then take that step. if you need to change your living situation or get student loans to provide support for your new direction, then do that. i know … if you are in a hostile work environment, you so badly want to tell your current boss to \u201ctake this job and shove it\u201d or do an exit interview so that you can tell the company how mismanaged it is. but this craving is only about satisfying your ego, not about changing your direction. for that matter, never burn a bridge unless you have to, which is rare. there was a common saying when i worked for ibm in sales:<\/p>\n

“love them (speaking about those who directly reported to you) on your way up (your ascent into management) because you will need them on your way down.”<\/p>\n

regardless of the change you are contemplating, when you make the decision, be diligent in planning and taking the little steps that will properly position you when it is time to make the jump. when i say, \u201crun toward something,\u201d i am proposing that you create a plan, metaphorically start walking first, and as you get in shape (have everything lined up), then start running. often, what you find by taking this more diligent approach is options open up to you that you might not have ever considered. for example,<\/p>\n